The most searched self-help topic on the internet, not surprisingly, is confidence. Many of us grapple with moments of faltering confidence, while some endure prolonged periods of self-doubt that cast shadows over our lives.
Confidence, at times, seems ephemeral, elusive, and intangible – a distant beacon beyond our grasp. Yet, part of enhancing confidence lies in cultivating an intuitive belief in oneself. Steve Jobs, known for his innovative thinking and entrepreneurial spirit, recognized the importance of intuition in decision-making processes, emphasizing its potency even in the face of intellect and rationality.
“Intuition is a very powerful thing, more powerful than intellect.” Steve Jobs
It is this intrinsic wisdom, often overlooked and undervalued, that serves as a steadfast companion on our journey towards self-assurance. In the cacophony of external voices and societal pressures, it’s easy to lose sight of our intuitive compass. However, by embracing our inner wisdom, honing our instincts, and staying open to possibilities, we reclaim agency over our lives and chart a course towards authentic confidence and fulfilment. Intuition, then, becomes not just a silent whisper, but a powerful ally in our quest for self-assurance and personal growth.
Intuition, as defined by psychologists, is the ability to understand or know something without the need for conscious reasoning – a gut feeling that arises from our subconscious mind and draws upon our past experiences, emotions, and cognitive processes. It’s a silent guide that speaks to us beyond the realm of logic, helping us navigate the complexities of life with clarity and insight.
Imagine Sarah, a young professional facing a career crossroads. Unsure whether to pursue a promotion or explore a new industry, she finds herself torn between practicality and passion. One evening, as she reflects on her options, a sense of clarity washes over her – a gut feeling that points her towards the path less travelled. Trusting her intuition, Sarah embarks on a new journey, guided by a sense of purpose and possibility.
Intuition is the subtle voice of inner wisdom that speaks to us beyond logic and reasoning. It’s that instinctive knowing that guides us towards decisions aligned with our deepest desires and values. Like a compass guiding us through life’s maze, intuition draws upon our past experiences, emotions, and subconscious cues to steer us in the right direction.
During World War II, Lieutenant Colonel Charles Haltom, an experienced pilot serving in the United States Air Force, found himself in a life-threatening situation. While flying a mission over enemy territory, Haltom’s aircraft suffered critical engine failure, leaving him with no choice but to make a split-second decision.
In a moment of crisis, Haltom trusted his intuition and made the daring decision to crash-land his plane behind enemy lines. His intuition guided him to choose a clearing in the dense forest below, a decision that defied conventional wisdom but ultimately saved his life and the lives of his crew members.
Haltom’s story is a testament to the power of intuition in high-stakes situations. By relying on his instincts and making swift decisions, he was able to navigate through uncertainty and adversity, emerging victorious against overwhelming odds. His experience serves as a reminder of the profound wisdom that lies within us, waiting to be tapped into during moments of crisis and decision-making.
In Malcolm Gladwell’s Blink, he shares similar stories of ordinary people making extraordinary decisions in the blink of an eye. From firefighters navigating complex situations to art experts discerning the authenticity of masterpieces, these anecdotes illustrate the profound wisdom that lies within each of us – the wisdom of intuition honed through a lifetime of experiences and insights.
Gladwell’s book also explores the phenomenon of “thin-slicing”, where experts are able to make accurate judgments based on limited information. For example, art historians tasked with authenticating historical artefacts often rely on their intuition and expertise to make split-second decisions. They may record the first word that comes to mind when presented with a piece of art for purchase, tapping into their subconscious knowledge to discern its authenticity.
While intuition serves as a valuable guide in decision-making, it’s essential to approach it with self-awareness and critical scrutiny to mitigate the impact of biases on our intuitive responses.
As Albert Einstein famously remarked: “The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honours the servant and has forgotten the gift.”
Psychological research emphasizes the need for a balanced approach that integrates intuition with critical thinking and self-reflection. By adopting this approach, individuals gain a deeper understanding of themselves and others, fostering empathy and insight into the intricate dynamics of human behaviour.
Despite its profound influence, we often find ourselves ignoring or dismissing our intuition. The cacophony of external voices – the expectations of society, the pressures of peers – can drown out the quiet whispers of our inner wisdom. We may second-guess ourselves, allowing fear and doubt to cloud our judgment and lead us astray. In a world that values rationality and logic above all else, the intuitive voice within us can be easily overlooked or silenced.
How to use your intuition effectively:
- Listen to your inner voices: Pay attention to the different voices within you – the rational voice of reason, the emotional voice of feeling, and the intuitive voice of insight. Each voice offers valuable perspectives that can inform your decisions and actions.
- Trust your gut instincts: Learn to recognize and trust the subtle nudges and feelings that arise within you. Your gut instincts often serve as powerful indicators of what’s right or wrong for you in a given situation.
- Reflect on past experiences: Take time to reflect on past experiences where your intuition guided you towards positive outcomes. Consider what factors influenced your decisions and how you can apply those insights to similar situations in the future.
- Create space for quiet reflection: In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it’s easy to become overwhelmed by noise and distractions. Carve out moments of quiet reflection to tune into your inner wisdom and allow your intuition to speak to you without interference.
- Stay open to possibilities: Approach life with an open mind and a willingness to explore new possibilities. Be receptive to the insights and ideas that emerge from your inner voices, trusting that they will lead you towards the path that aligns with your true purpose.
Final words
In our journey through life, let’s recognize intuition as a significant element in our decision-making toolkit. By sharpening our capacity to rely on instinct and inner guidance, we improve our confidence for making choices that resonate with our true selves and pave the way for personal fulfilment.
By Farah Naz
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Farah Naz is a UK trained psychotherapist of more than 30 years and is a Clinical Hypnotherapist. She has worked with thousands of people globally for a range of issues. Farah has trained doctors, teachers and health workers on stress management. Currently, she has an online international practice and a private practice in the Algarve. www.iamfarah.com email: info@iamfarah.com
