Picture this: you’re standing at the edge of the sea, feeling the cool winter air against your skin. The waves are rhythmic and steady, moving in their own time, neither hurried nor slow. There’s a sense of calm in the vastness of it all. The world around you is quiet, but it’s the kind of quiet that invites reflection, not emptiness. It’s the kind of stillness that speaks to something deeper.
This is winter. And, like the waves, it offers a unique rhythm of its own – a rhythm that asks us to slow down, to step out of the chaos of daily life, and embrace the pause. But how often do we resist this? How many of us, when the chill sets in and the days shorten, feel the pressure to keep pushing, doing, and achieving, as though the quiet of winter is something to fight against? What if, instead, we allowed ourselves to fully embrace this season of stillness?
The quiet power of winter
Winter often gets a bad rap. The dark days, the cold, the dampness – it’s easy to see it as a time to be endured rather than embraced. But there’s an unspoken gift in winter’s quiet. It’s a season that has the potential to shift the way we live, if only we allow it.
I think of winter as a deep, cleansing breath. Imagine standing on a quiet beach as the cold air fills your lungs, stretching deep into your belly, and then releasing it slowly. Winter is like that breath. It’s a moment to exhale after the demands of the year, to let go of the pressure to keep going. It invites us to pause, to rest, and to be present with ourselves. It’s a time when we can allow our energy to replenish, rather than constantly depleting it.
Winter doesn’t demand anything from us but stillness. It’s a rare opportunity to step back, recalibrate, and focus inward. It’s not about pushing through the season, but about meeting it with an openness to slow down. It’s in these moments of stillness that we find room to listen – to ourselves, to our emotions, and to the world around us.
The psychology of seasonal change
Of course, winter isn’t always easy. The short days and lack of sunlight can affect our mood and, for some, it brings a sense of heaviness. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is real and can leave people feeling down, even without an obvious cause. But it’s not all doom and gloom. For others, winter is an opportunity to reflect. The quiet of winter invites us to sit with our thoughts, to digest the year that’s passed, and to look ahead.
Think of it like this: winter is the traveller who finds shelter after a long journey. You don’t stay in the shelter forever, but you pause, rest, and gather strength before you continue on your way. Winter offers us that shelter – a chance to take stock, to realign, and to prepare for what’s to come.
The gift of presence
There’s a tendency to see winter as something to ‘get through’, but what if we viewed it differently? What if we saw it as a gift? Rather than rushing from one task to another, filling the season with endless distractions, we could use this time to reconnect – with ourselves, our loved ones, and nature.
I remember a winter a few years ago when I decided to spend a few days by the sea, alone. No agenda, no rushing, just me and the sound of the waves. At first, it felt uncomfortable -there was this unease in the quiet, like I should be doing something. But slowly, as the days passed, I began to settle into the stillness. I noticed the rhythms of the waves, the stillness of the sky, and the simple pleasure of being in my own company. I left feeling lighter, clearer, and more at peace, not because I had accomplished anything, but because I had allowed myself to be present in the moment.
Winter is an invitation to do the same – to slow down, to pause, and to connect with what’s truly important. It’s not about ‘achieving’ or filling the days with activity. It’s about giving ourselves permission to be still.
Practical ways to embrace winter’s stillness
Here are a few simple ways to honour winter’s quiet and use it to reset and recharge:
Mindfulness: Winter is the season of slowing down, so let yourself be present. You don’t need to force anything – simply take a few moments each day to sit in silence. You might choose to meditate, focus on your breathing, or just sit and listen to the sounds around you. Winter is not the time to be in a rush.
Journalling: Writing can help you process the season’s introspective energy. Put your thoughts down on paper, whether it’s reflections on the year gone by, goals for the future, or just what you’re feeling in the present. Journalling allows you to release what’s been lingering in your mind and create space for clarity.
Connection: It’s easy to retreat into isolation during the colder months, but sometimes, a quiet walk or a cup of tea with a friend can make all the difference. Connection doesn’t have to be grand or complicated. It can be as simple as a shared moment of peace with someone you care about.
Rest and recharge: Winter is the season to replenish your energy. Allow yourself to rest without guilt. Whether that means taking a nap, reading a book, or enjoying a quiet evening at home, make time for the things that nurture you. In the stillness, you’ll find the energy you need to move forward when the season changes.
Looking ahead
Winter is not just a waiting room for spring. It’s a time for renewal. It offers us the space to pause, reflect, and prepare for what’s next. The quiet is not something to fear or resist, but to embrace. In that stillness, we can hear what truly matters, whether it’s a long-held desire, a new goal, or simply the need for rest.
So, this winter, let’s allow ourselves to stop. To breathe. To be still. Let’s honour the season for what it is – an opportunity for reflection and recharging. The world may keep rushing, but in winter’s quiet, we find our own pace. And in that pace, we find the strength to meet the year ahead.
By Farah Naz
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Farah Naz is a UK trained psychotherapist of more than 30 years and is a Clinical Hypnotherapist. She has worked with thousands of people globally for a range of issues. Farah has trained doctors, teachers and health workers on stress management. Currently, she has an online international practice and a private practice in the Algarve. www.iamfarah.com email: info@iamfarah.com
